I have a little situation in which I have never been. I am not quite sure how to handle it at this point. The thing is I am now dating Jeremy, which is amazing. However, I now have 5 other guys who have e-mailed me after speed dating. I don't quite know how to tell them, yes a week ago I was available but now I am not.
I guess really I should tell them just that, but I don't want to be rude. Really I suppose the problem is that I think too highly of myself. Thinking that I am going to crush their poor little hearts by telling them I am not available any more. They may be disappointed but I only met them for a total of 7 minutes. It's not the end of the world, and yet I still don't know what to say!!
5 comments:
Be truthful! Tell them you found the experience fun, interesting, (whatever adj. you want to use)but since the week of speed dating, you met a man you started dating. It's better to respond than to keep quiet about it. That'd be rude. :-)
Gee! This advice sounds exactly like what I said when asked my opinion!!!
I agree completely with gail and apparently revbkm as well. :)
I did it! I e-mailed them all and just told them that it was great to meet them. That speed dating was alot of fun and turned out better than I expected. And that in the last week I have started dating someone that I met there. So I am proud of myself. Thanks, Brian, Gail, and Noah for you advice!
tell them, you snooze, you lose! ;-)
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