Saturday, September 06, 2008

Are You Serious?

After the experiences I have had in the last two years I have determined that dating when you are in your later 20's is very different from your early 20's. My friend Keema were discussing how we should write a book about all the different men that have come in and out of or lives and title it "Are You Serious?" I must admit I think she has me beat in the weirdo department when one guy called her out of the blue after a few months and said he was coming back to town and wanted to see her. She refused and good thing because she later found out he was just coming back to town because he had been in prison for the last 6 months and that is why he hadn't called her. I have not had a man recently released from prison, but I have had my handful of doozies as well. From the I never want to be married again guy, to the no I've never been married but a week later I have to go to court to finalize my divorce, to the oh by the way I am divorced and have a kid guy, to the super sweet guy who adores you but your just too different, to the guy you are nuts about but dumps you for another girl and then decides he made a huge mistake after the new girl dumps him and wants you back, to the I went out with you once and don't have the decency to say I am not attracted to you so I will just never speak to you again guy, and the latest I have some huge issues I am dealing with and I don't know if this can ever go anywhere guy.

Honestly I am quite amazed at those of you who have actually been able to get married and have a happy marriage. I don't see how you did it. I really don't see how these people who married the first person, or close to the first person they ever dated managed! I'm not giving up hope that there are still decent, God fearing, wonderful men out there. I just hope I don't go insane before I meet him!

1 comment:

DDeden said...

I don't know where this saying came from, but it came to mind ...

there's more flakes than a blizzard

in a sense, that's true.

who knows. as always, good luck.