Why is it that when you say your happy being single, your not worried about looking for a husband, your content where you are, and your just going to wait on God, everyone seems to tell you that you need to be more open, let guys know you are available because you might intimidate them for being so independent. And that is the reason your are not meeting anyone.
Then you turn around and tell same people that you are actively seeking a future mate, meeting new guys going on dates, and they tell you well you know it always happens when you least expect it not when you are looking for it.
I mean really you can't win for losing. The other annoying thing is when people who married in their early twenties are trying to give me dating advice and saying that I need to be patient and I am not that old. Easy for you to say when you haven't walked in my shoes!!! Sorry if you are one of those people but honestly you just don't understand. Just like I don't completely understand when you talk about your husbands and kids. I haven't walked in your shoes.
All this to say. I am perfectly content being single however I am actively seeking a future mate. I mean yes God has a lot to do with it and I pray about every date on go on before it happens. Yet I am not just going to sit around and wait for God to plop him on my door step, for some that may work, but I didn't just sit around the house waiting for my boss to show up on my door step when I needed a job. I had to do some work to get my job and the one I have is the one God wants me in, so I figure he will do the same for my future husband as well.
P.S. Can you tell that I am just trying to avoid writing lesson plans right now?
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